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Girl..Don't stress about it

Dear unchilled beauty,

So you’re freaking out because you procrastinated your ten-page paper again and it’s a couple of days before it’s due. This isn’t the first time you’ve done this, but you also have a ton of other things on your plate. So now the stress is getting to you even more and you’re having one of those weekly mental breakdowns, asking yourself why you did this to yourself again. I’m here to tell you it’s okay that you don’t have everything together!

Walking around campus you see those girls who seem like they have their whole life put together. She has straight A’s, is in five clubs, an RA, works and has an internship. Then you think to yourself that you are just lucky that you woke up on time, only to throw on a baggy T-shirt and a pair of leggings. Which is a completely acceptable outfit for early morning classes (or for any time of the day).

It’s hard balancing everything. You get so caught up in school and a social life that eventually your bedroom and car look like Miley Cyrus took a wrecking ball to it. Balancing a school life can come easy to some girls and harder for others, but that doesn’t mean that you’re not doing the best that you can. I try to remind myself of this often. I am the type of girl who stresses out way more then she should. If I keep doing this I’ll have gray hairs by the time I’m out of college and so will you if you’re the same way. Don’t compare yourself to anyone else! What they’re doing has nothing to do with you! Just do you boo, just do you!

"Confidence Eliminates the Bully"